Have you ever been around someone who just spouts something and you’re not sure if they’re serious or not?
I have! I married one. I’m not kidding when I say I can’t believe some of the things he says. Mostly it’s just so comical, I laugh at him.
The funniest part is watching the reactions of people when they’re not sure if he’s serious or not. Believe me, most times he’s not serious, he likes to see the reaction
Case in point, a few weeks ago we stopped by Black Coffee Shop in Tryon, NC Our initial intent was to get coffee; however plans changed as we looked at the menu.
Remembering that Alex had visited there a few weeks prior and had raved about the smoothies, I knew that’s what I wanted. Terry and Amy followed suit and ordered smoothies as well
I noticed Terry spying the yummy looking baked goods in the case. Then it happened, out of the clear blue, pointing at the cookies, he said to the gal behind the counter, “Do you think you could give me one of those and let me nibble it like a rat nibbles on cheese?”
She looked at him, not sure how to respond, then gave a little smile and said, “I could give you sample.”
At this point, I am trying to hold myself together to keep from disturbing the peace.
He did his signature chuckle and said, “Nah, that’s ok but I will take the bear-claw.”
Sometimes, he is hard to read. It’s hard to tell when he’s being serious or joking. The dude can keep an arrow straight face. Beats all I’ve ever seen. However, when you’ve been around him long enough, you can tell. You know when he’s serious and when he’s not.
I told you in an earlier blog that he doesn’t shy away from confrontation. He will call a spade a spade. He calls it like he sees it. The only difference is that he does it with this chuckle, which helps to ease his words.
There’s just something about him and the way he is that makes me love him more. It’s difficult for me to stay angry with him for any length of time, mostly because he’ll say or do something to ease the tension. It’s the same characteristics that make others love him and want to be around him. He’s consistently the same.
There’s something very special and unique about his personality. It’s a very rare trait in today’s society where everyone is trying to fit in with the crowd or trying to impress someone for the first time.
Honestly, I find myself trying to be more like him I want to be real with people I don’t want to be something I’m not. It’s farther exhausting. Besides, if you have to pretend to be something you’re not, is it even worth the pursuit of a friendship? I think not
Dr. Seuss had it completely right when he said, “Why fit in when you were born to stand out?”
God’s word tells us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. In fact just take a look at how Eugene Patterson translates the following scripture
“Oh yes, you shaped me first inside, then out; you formed me in my mother’s womb. I thank you, High God—you’re breathtaking! Body and soul, I am marvelously made! I worship in adoration—what a creation! You know me inside and out, you know every bone in my body; You know exactly how I was made, bit by bit, how I was sculpted from nothing into something. Like an open book, you watched me grow from conception to birth; all the stages of my life were spread out before you, The days of my life all prepared before I’d even lived one day.”
Psalm 139:13-16 MSG